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Kindness to family remains a duty, even where beliefs now differ.
Q: My family isn't Muslim and I'm worried about how they'll react — what does Islam ask of me here? A: Kindness to parents and family is commanded in the Qur'an even where belief differs: 'do not obey them [in matters that would compromise your faith], but accompany them in this world with kindness.' Your new faith should visibly make you gentler and more dutiful toward family, not less.
Q: How do I tell my family, or handle disagreement, without it becoming a crisis? A: There's no single right way — pace, timing, and how much to share depend on your specific family and safety. This is a genuinely personal decision; talking it through with a trusted local imam, counsellor, or experienced convert-support group before difficult conversations is wiser than navigating it entirely alone.
Q: Am I obligated to cut ties with non-Muslim family or friends? A: No — maintaining good relationships and honouring family ties remains a duty in Islam. Boundaries around specific practices (for example, certain celebrations or activities) are a separate, personal matter best discussed with a knowledgeable local teacher who knows your situation.

Qur'an

Reference: Qur'an 31:15
But if they endeavour to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them, but accompany them in this world with kindness...
This FAQ offers general, non-fatwa guidance for common early questions. For your specific family, safety, or personal circumstances, please speak with a local imam, qualified counsellor, or trusted community elder.
A shallow-but-correct starting guide covering only the shared essentials every school agrees on. For your specific situation, ask a local imam or teacher.